March 20, 2015

Window Box Planting and Being Gracious






I remember those days when my identity...as well as my name...was Johnny and Jamie Vater's Mom. Particularly in the elementary school years, one didn't have a name, as much as a moniker of parental association. Of course, I didn't mind...proud to be known as such. 

Last week,  I was out in the front garden piddling and puttering. A lovely woman stopped and we chatted a moment. "Would you mind if I got out and    took a look?" she asked. As I was not knee
deep in garden reverie nor mud, I said of course and so she did. She told me that 



she had recognized my front yard before she recognized me, yet another identity separate from myself...and a recognition that has recently happened more than once. With a detour down my street as a result of construction on Western Avenue, I have had far more passers-by than normal; this woman had not previously been down my block to identify it as mine. While strolling through the garden, she told me that she watches me and LC on 4 YOUR GARDEN on Fridays, that she reads my blog and admires my horticultural handiwork. 


She kindly thanked me for being gracious and what she felt I had done to promote gardening in Oklahoma City. I was, of course, extremely flattered and pleased, and invited her back sometime. We affectionately parted, new friends via a gardening tether. 



When not in a rush to complete a task, or in the zone, oblivious to what is happening around me; or, of course, in my pajamas..... I do try to be welcoming, and yes, gracious. Such garden graciousness has often been extended to me in the past, by lovely gardeners the world over who were anxious to share their gardens, and exchange a word or two. I try to pay it forward.


My back window box which has been rather neglected of late...I resolve to give it more attention this season.

As generous as MOST gardeners are, such graciousness is not always the case. Garden flattery and admiration, much less questions, are sometimes met with annoyance and an I couldn't be botheredrather superior, attitude. This too, I have experienced on a few occasions...as have you, no doubt. Consequently,  I do try, (and greatly enjoy doing so) to share my garden and exchange garden wisdom with those who stop by. I do try to be gracious and welcoming. 



And truly, what is more gracious and welcoming than a brimming window box? Please join me and Linda Cavanaugh today at 4:30 to talk about planting free-standing window boxes with spring blossoms and foliage... a gracious gesture from your home to those who pass by.




March 6, 2015

OHS Meeting featuring Dr. William Welch


Climbing 'Old Blush'  growing on my office roof.  Find it, along with other rose delectables here

Last summer, on the tail end of a SOUTHERN LIVING garden shoot, I had the great pleasure, honor really, of meeting the esteemed Dr. William Welch... garden writer and educator, Southern Garden historian, heirloom bulb advocate, antique rose rustler and rosarian extraordinaire, and one of the founders of the Antique Rose Emporium,  from whence  this spectacular rose came. Dr. Welch and his lovely wife, Lucille, along with two Oklahoma friends...



Find THE BULB HUNTER here; PERENNIAL GARDEN COLOR here.

came by for a quick tour of my garden following the shoot. 


I was quite humbled to have Dr. Welch, and our mutual friend Bubba, then garden editor at SL, both rock-star caliber gardeners, as my garden guests.


Find HEIRLOOM GARDENING IN THE SOUTH here. (I have been reading it
while snow bound these last few days...)

And now it can be your good fortune to meet and visit with Dr. Welch as well! As a guest of the Oklahoma Horticultural Society, he will be speaking this weekend in both Oklahoma City and Tulsa. Details from the OHS program are below.




Saturday, March 7th at 6:30 p.m. at the Tulsa Garden Center 

Sunday, March 8th at 2:00 p.m. at the Will Rogers Park Garden Exposition Center in Oklahoma City

OHS is happy to present speaker Dr. Bill Welch. Dr. Welch is presently Professor and Landscape Horticulturist for Texas A&M University. He is a native of Houston, Texas, has an undergraduate degree in Landscape Architecture from LSU and did doctoral work in Horticulture and Extension Education there as well. Dr. Welch writes about gardening in Texas and the South and has several books that have been popular references including Perennial Garden Color, Antique Roses for the South, The Bountiful Flower Garden (with Neil Odenwald), Heirloom Gardening in the South (with Greg Grant) and The Bulb Hunter (with Chris Wiesinger). Welch writes a monthly garden column for Southern Living Magazine and Neil Sperry's Gardens and has had his gardens in Louisiana and Texas featured. Welch has been instrumental in the movement to collect and reintroduce old southern garden favorites into the modern plant palette. Roses have been a special interest, and he help found The Antique Rose Emporium near Brenham, Texas.

Find out more information about joining the OKLAHOMA HORTICULTURAL SOCIETY HERE
DO join us this weekend -- a wonderful way to kick off the 2015 Spring gardening season!